{"id":998,"date":"2016-11-18T11:11:52","date_gmt":"2016-11-18T16:11:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/?page_id=998"},"modified":"2022-02-24T08:46:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T13:46:16","slug":"six-ways-keep-advent-season-holy-part-ii-advent-2016","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/six-ways-keep-advent-season-holy-part-ii-advent-2016\/","title":{"rendered":"Six Ways to Keep Your Advent Season Holy, Part II &#8211; Advent 2016"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div align=\"center\" class=\"youtube-responsive-container\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4k1l66m_bi0?rel=0&amp;modestbranding=1\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"\" width=\"1000\" height=\"564\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">Summary<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>In this second part, Elizabeth discusses the three remaining tips to keep our Advent season holy. She shares her insights and personal experiences, and encourages us to try and follow these tips to help us have a more meaningful Advent and Christmas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thank you for watching and participating in this retreat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Not Registered, yet? Don\u2019t miss the rest of the talks! Register for the Pray More Retreat!&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-horizontal is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-layout-1 wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link\" href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/2016-lent-retreat\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Click Here to Register!<\/strong><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">Downloads<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Audio MP3<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/02%20-%20Elizabeth%20Ficocelli%20-%20Six%20Ways%20to%20Keep%20Your%20Advent%20Season%20Holy%2c%20Part%202.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Click&nbsp;here&nbsp;to download audio file.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Printable Study Guide PDF<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Six-Ways-to-Keep-Your-Advent-Season-Holy-Part-II-Study-Guide.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Click here to download the printable study guide.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Printable Transcript PDF<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Six-Ways-to-Keep-Your-Advent-Season-Holy-Part-II-Transcript.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Click here to download the transcript of the video presentation.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">Reflective Study Guide Questions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>\u201cI don\u2019t need a church to tell me I\u2019m wrong where I already know I\u2019m wrong; I need a church to tell me I\u2019m wrong where I think I\u2019m right.\u201d  <\/p><cite><em>G.K. Chesterton<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Martha sat at Jesus\u2019 feet and listened to all that Jesus had to say. This Advent, what is a way that you can be more like Martha and experience Advent in a deeper, more profound way than you\u2019ve ever experienced it? Ask God to help you push away secularism and materialism so that you can be rejuvenated interiorly this Advent.<br><br><\/li><li>Do you have experiences of anxiety or shame in regards to your sins? Are you holding onto sins that you think are too great or that you\u2019ve already confessed? If so, take the time to make a <a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/tuning-thought-frequency-god-advent-2016\/\">thoughtful confession during this Advent season and know that God<\/a> will shower you with gift of His unconditional forgiveness and the many graces of personal fortification and love towards ourselves and others. Putting your sins at the feet of Jesus will bring you both peace and joy and will also prepare your heart for Christmas.<br><br><\/li><li>Do you know the different types of sin? Challenge yourself to do a full examination of conscience so you can be sure you remember the various types of sins.<br><br><\/li><li>Jesus said that the pathway to heaven is through serving the least among us. Do you make an effort to be neighborly and show those around you neighborly love? What spiritual and corporal works of mercy can you do this Advent? Ask yourself, \u201cHow can I be more neighborly? How can I give of myself?\u201d<br><br><\/li><li>What are some of your favorite Advent traditions? Are there any new traditions that you would like to incorporate into your family to help you prepare your hearts for the coming of Jesus?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">Text: Six Ways to Keep Your Advent Season Holy, Part II<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Hi, welcome back! I\u2019m Elizabeth Ficocelli Catholic author, speaker and radio host. This is part two of my presentation, \u201cSix Tips to Keep Your Advent Season Holy\u201d. Let\u2019s begin again with a prayer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>In the Name of the Father, and the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Lord, we thank You and praise You for the season of Advent. And we ask You to help us to experience this Advent in a deeper, more profound way than we\u2019ve ever experienced it. Help us to push away the temptations to be swept up in materialism or secularism and all the distractions of this very busy time of year. So that we can place ourselves, as Martha did, at Your feet to just be in Your presence, to just be rejuvenated interiorly so we can be strengthened to go out as husbands, wives, as disciples to do the work that You\u2019ve set us to do on this Earth. And we ask this in Jesus\u2019 name. Amen.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Welcome back and in the first presentation, we began our discussion on six ways to keep your <a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/lifelong-journey-holiness-advent-2016\/\">Advent season holy<\/a>. We talked about \u201cA\u201d for \u201cAdoration\u201d of the Blessed Sacrament. We talked about \u201cD\u201d the \u201cDivine Word\u201d. We talked about \u201cV\u201d the Virgin Mary and how to bring her deeper into our spiritual walk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Examination of Conscience<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>So, the next letter in Advent is the letter \u201cE\u201d and the letter \u201cE\u201d stands for \u201cExamination of Conscience\u201d. Advent is a perfect season, a great season for searching our souls for kind of getting reflective on where we are or how we\u2019re doing in our life or where we can do better. In the Early Church, Advent used to be referred to as a \u201cLittle Lent\u201d. Okay, there was a great deal of emphasis on penance and conversion and doing acts of reparation for our sinful nature. I think we kind of moved away from that in more modern times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I think there\u2019s a great value in maintaining a state of desire to do penance, to do reparation to really look at ourselves and say, \u201cWhere do I need to make my paths straight?\u201d as John the Baptist asked us to do as he was preparing us for the coming of Jesus. You know, we are a sinful humanity. We are in great need of a savior. And I think <a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/st-ignatius-loyolas-process-reflecting-gospels-advent-2016\/\">Advent provides us with an opportunity to be reflective<\/a>. And as Catholics, we have this great gift. It\u2019s called the Sacrament of Reconciliation (or confession) where we can really unburden ourselves and begin again anew.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And as much as I have this great passion for this sacrament, I\u2019ve come to understand that this is a sacrament that for a lot of Catholics is so misunderstood, so under utilized and it\u2019s a great shame because there is so much wonderful benefit (and we\u2019re going to talk about that in this part of the presentation). But I was trying to set out to find out why. Why is this sacrament so under utilized when it has so many great benefits? And I began to come up with a few reasons after talking to a lot of people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First of all, we have to look at the culture that we are existing in right now. We have a culture that tells us there\u2019s no right or wrong. There\u2019s no absolute truth. But we have this moral relativism where everyone\u2019s private truth is the truth. And because of that, why would people go to confession? Because they can justify anything they do and there\u2019s really no right or wrong in the minds of the culture. That\u2019s a very pervasive mentality that seeps into even the lives of us Catholics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think among Catholics there\u2019s a confusion over sin. I think we need to get <a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/back-basics-part-iii-advent-2017\/\">back to some basic<\/a> catechesis on what is a mortal sin, what\u2019s a venial sin? You know, something as simple as missing mass without a valid reason is a mortal sin. But I think it\u2019s something that I think we need to hear a little bit more from the pulpits and just a little more catechesis. So, again, if people aren\u2019t aware of sin and what constitutes sin they\u2019re not going to feel a need to go to confession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think another thing that keeps people away from the sacrament of Reconciliation is maybe feelings of anxiety and shame and guilt over things we\u2019ve done wrong because it\u2019s difficult to talk about those and admit those and that can keep people away. Sometimes people have a lack of trust in the confessor, in the priest themselves. Maybe they had a bad experience with a priest once. Maybe he gave them bad advice and they never returned to the sacrament. Sometimes they never return to the church (I\u2019ve talked to people in that situation). So, that can keep them away from confession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe they are stuck in feelings of unforgiveness. Where they think that whatever they did in the past was so terrible that God would never forgive them and they judge themselves. They play God and they keep themselves away from God\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/the-importance-of-mercy-love-in-action-christian-witness-in-the-world-lent-2022\/\">mercy and His love<\/a> and His desire to set them on a new path. Sometimes Catholics, even Catholics, get stuck on this: Why do we need a priest? Why can\u2019t I just talk to God in my heart? Why do I have to go to confession to do it? Doesn\u2019t God know me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well the reason we go to a priest is, you know, God is very wise and He knew that we are not always the best judges of ourselves that we can be fooled by ourselves, we can be not very objective and so we need someone who has our best spiritual interest in mind. On the outside, who can help us and course correct us when we\u2019re going astray. And so, Jesus breathed on the Apostles and He gave those first Apostles the power to loose and bind sins and they passed that on by the laying of hands on the priests that we have today. And you know, one other reason why we have that priest is when we sin we often understand that we turn our backs on or walk away from God. Right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But we also turn our backs on the community our sin affects all of those in the church community because we\u2019re all the body of Christ so our good and our bad affects everybody else. It\u2019s the priest in the collar who is reconciling us back, not just to God in that confession but to the church community itself. So we really need this sacrament but because there\u2019s all this negative feeling about confession out there, what\u2019s I\u2019ve come to do is try to combat that by focusing on the gift that I see reconciliation is. And I kind of call it a two-fold gift.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first part of the gift is God\u2019s forgiveness. That\u2019s an amazing gift because God\u2019s forgiveness, unlike human forgiveness, is unconditional. If we go to confession and we are really sorry and we want to do better. He is going to give us complete unconditional forgiveness. Complete washing clean. Complete clean slate, ultimate do-over. He\u2019s not going to hang onto it. He\u2019s going to let it go and He\u2019s asking us to also. So, wonderful forgiveness. We cannot get that kind of forgiveness in all our earthly relationships can we?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The other gift we get by going to confession is the gift of grace. Grace is powerful. Grace begins to work before we even begin our confession. Before we step foot in that confessional it\u2019s that grace that gets us there in the first place. That recognition that I need to get to confession and talk to a priest about this. So, that\u2019s one of the graces. Another grace is when we go to confession regularly we begin to see ourselves a little bit better, maybe how God is seeing us. We do gain a little bit more objectivity in our lives. What are our attitudes behind our actions and how do we correct that so we can correct our behaviors as well?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We get the grace of being wiser against our temptations, you know, recognizing what our temptations really are. And we actually get fortitude by going to confession. And we get stronger each time. It doesn\u2019t mean we\u2019re never going to sin again. We are fallen humanity but we do literally become strengthened and stronger against those temptations. And I think the other grace that we get by going to confession regularly is we become more loving and more merciful to ourselves which is very important but also to others because we\u2019re experiencing God\u2019s love and mercy on a regular basis. So it kind of channels out through us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another benefit though, there\u2019s more benefits than this, if we go to confession on a regular basis and we hear those words of the priest who knows us, who is in relationship with us we get we get kind of what\u2019s like spiritual counseling or even like spiritual direction. Because he knows us and he\u2019s able to say, \u201cElizabeth if you go down that road you know what\u2019s going to happen because it\u2019s happened in the past and he plays that role of important words of wisdom that we need to hear regularly to keep us on the path to holiness. So if forms, like I said, spiritual guidance or spiritual direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And yet there\u2019s another even more amazing gift to the sacrament of reconciliation, probably the least benefit that is known to people, and that is it\u2019s tremendous power against evil. I learned that through a priest that recently passed away, Fr. Gabriel Amorth. He was the official exorcist of Rome for decades. He performed thousands of exorcisms. In one of his books that he wrote he talked about confession. And listen to this! He said, \u201cA good heartfelt confession where we are really sorry for our sins and want to do better has more power over evil than a full-fledged Roman exorcism\u201d. And I stopped to myself and said when you think about a billion Catholics all over the globe and how few are really using this sacrament regularly. If we all used this sacrament regularly and tapped into that grace, that power over evil worldwide (wow!) we\u2019d have a different world overnight. I truly believe that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, I\u2019m talking about confession and you\u2019re probably thinking \u201cWow! This girl is really on fire about this sacrament!\u201d. But I\u2019m going to share something with you, this was not the case for me. [During] my first 10 years of Catholicism, this was the biggest obstacle for me. I never got this. I went but I didn\u2019t get what was going on. I didn\u2019t understand that this was a sacrament, an encounter with the living Christ himself. All I could see was a miserable foot-dragging experience to go into that little dark closet with that man with the collar around his neck and having to tell him humiliating things. You know, I didn\u2019t even go to my own pastor for confession. I went to a church on the other side of town to a priest that didn\u2019t know me because I thought if my pastor knew how bad I was, how sinful I was he wouldn\u2019t like me anymore. I thought maybe he was telling other priests about me, you know, or other people about me and I didn\u2019t understand the seal of confidentiality that goes on in the sacrament of confession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I just didn\u2019t get it. I never felt better. You know? I\u2019d always beat myself up. I never felt better. And then one day it was in the mid-90\u2019s. God performed this tremendous miracle. He had brought Faustina and the Divine Mercy into my life and it was after making a very difficult confession (I had done something I was really humiliated about and so sorry about) that He gave me a tangible, tangible experience of His forgiveness. It was not in the confession itself but as I was exiting the confessional (still feeling terrible) when I felt this washing clean feeling. That ocean of mercy being poured out on me like Jesus had told Faustina he had wished to pour out His ocean of mercy on us sinners. And it transformed me! It brought me such a feeling of instant lightness and joy that I suddenly understood this is what confession was all about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is what God\u2019s mercy is all about and He wanted me to experience this because He was eventually going to want me to speak about it and write about it, which I have many times. And people have told me after that they\u2019ve come back to the sacrament after 10, 20, 30 even 40 years of being away because now they get it. So my tip for you \u201cE\u201d [for] \u201cExamination of Conscience\u201d. Search your soul this Advent and make that confession. Remember that it is Jesus with His arms open, ready to take you back, don\u2019t hold back anything. Put it all at the feet of Jesus. It will give you such a sense of peace and joy this Advent season.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Neighborly Love<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The next letter in Advent is \u201cN\u201d and \u201cN\u201d stands for \u201cNeighborly Love\u201d. Advent is a beautiful season that I think makes everybody a little more charitable, a little bit more aware of those around us, the more needy around us. Don\u2019t you notice that even secular people, non-believers become more charitable at this time of year? And I think there is something that we can build on there but when we think about Jesus 2,000 years ago what he said to his followers is that you could take all those 10 Commandments and really summarize them in the first two. Which is love God. Always love God first. But the second one? To love one another; to be neighborly to one another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what Jesus was telling his disciples and to us today is he wants us to be his hands, his feet, his heart here on the Earth. We need to be His Presence on the Earth. So, we can be watching out and taking care of the needy, the poor, the sick, the elderly, the orphaned, the widowed, all those on the fringes of society that He would reach out to if He were walking around like He did 2,000 years ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, we\u2019re being called to be neighborly in the season of Advent and our Church (I love our Church) gives us this beautiful blueprint or recipe for how to be neighborly and it\u2019s called the Works of Mercy. And we just came off the year of Mercy so it\u2019s a beautiful time for us to really employ this truthfully in our lives. There are corporal works of mercy and those are things like feeding the hungry and giving drink to the thirsty and clothing the naked and sheltering the homeless and comforting the dying and visiting the sick and burying the dead. And sometimes people say, \u201cWell, I\u2019m older now and I\u2019m in a state of life where I can\u2019t do that anymore\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, here are some things called the spiritual works of mercy. We can do these in a hospital bed or in our home if we are shut in and they are things like <a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/st-therese-teaches-us-live-simply-great-love-advent-2016\/\">teaching the ignorant and praying for the living<\/a> and the dead and correcting sinners and counseling those in doubt, (I have a list here) comforting the sorrowful and bearing wrongs patiently and forgiving wrongs willingly. I don\u2019t have those memorized yet. But the point is that these exist and these are great ways to be living out the works of mercy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, you know, the works of mercy are not things that we\u2019re just supposed to do because they are nice things to do. Jesus tells us. He makes no bones about it. This is our pathway to Heaven. Right? He separates the goats and the sheep when he talks about that in the Gospels and he says, \u201cBecause you fed me when I was hungry and you clothed me when I was naked\u201d. And the people said, \u201cLord when did we do that for you?\u201d. He said, \u201cWhen you do it for the least of my people you do it for me.\u201d. So, this is how we earn our salvation, our eternal destination of Heaven, is by being neighborly to one another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, this Advent I invite you to look around and say \u201cHow can I be more neighborly?\u201d. Where can I give of myself? And I know when I found that, for instance, when I make a meal for a new mom or that person who is having surgery. Just a little act of neighborliness it actually gives me more energy. It\u2019s that good feeling that I have love for someone else. Don\u2019t get overwhelmed. You know you can definitely get out of balance. You don\u2019t need to be so neighborly that you are neglecting your own family, your own vocation, your mission or whatever God\u2019s calling you to. But look for opportunities this Advent to be more neighborly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Traditions<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The last letter of Advent is \u201cT\u201d and \u201cT\u201d is for \u201cTraditions\u201d. Traditions are a wonderful thing. They give us a sense of identity, a sense of belonging to a community and to community faith. And Advent has lots of amazing traditions that we can incorporate. I\u2019m going to go through a list of them and, you know, maybe some of them you\u2019re doing now or you might wish to incorporate. Just a word of caution, don\u2019t take on too many at once because you\u2019ll get overwhelmed and you won\u2019t complete them and you\u2019ll feel bad about yourself. But maybe one or two of these, if you\u2019re not doing them already might be a beautiful way to just keep that reminder of I am in this very special liturgical season, a season all it\u2019s own, a season called <a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/keeping-real-advent-advent-2016\/\">Advent and I want to try to keep<\/a> it holy for myself and for my family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first tradition is the Advent wreath. I love this. You know, the Advent wreath is so full of symbolism. The round wreath shape is symbolic of God\u2019s love. It has no beginning and no end, it\u2019s just perpetual. It\u2019s eternal. The green boughs of the Advent wreath symbolize life even in the stark winter those evergreen boughs are green. Proving that life exists even in death, darkness, in the seasons of winter and that\u2019s true in our lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The four candles mark the four weeks of Advent. Three of them are purple. One of them is pink. That pink one is lit in the third week of Advent as a sign that we are more than halfway there. You know, Christmas is coming! The incarnation of the Word is coming to us and we are filled with joy. That\u2019s a special pink candle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The flames of the candle represents Christ\u2019s light in the darkness. And so, get your Advent wreath and put it in a central place. Ours is on our kitchen table. Bless it with holy water and gather around there daily. When you pray, when you eat light that candle and talk about God. Just join yourself to God in the Advent season through that Advent wreath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another tradition I love is the Jesse Tree. And this is essentially a family tree of Jesus. So, you pick a separate tree of it\u2019s own and there are ornaments for every day from December 1st through December 25th. You can even purchase a Jesse Tree kit online or you can make these ornaments yourself. But there are specific Biblical stories that are either actual ancestors in the lineage of Jesus or stories from the Old Testament that foreshadow the coming of the Lord. [It is a] beautiful way to countdown the days to Christmas and learn a whole bunch of Bible at the same time with your children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another tradition or way to countdown the Advent season is the Advent calendar. This is also wonderful but I would encourage you to get one with a spiritual theme. A nativity scene versus Santa and the reindeers. And if the doors open, maybe instead of just candy in there but if there\u2019s some word of scripture or a message that reminds us that Jesus is coming. It\u2019s a great way also to countdown the days to Christmas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s a feast day, saint\u2019s feast day, during the weeks of Advent. I\u2019m a big fan of saints and it\u2019s St. Nicholas Day. It happens on December 6th. And you know, the secular culture has hijacked the figure of St. Nicholas and turned him into the Santa Clause that we all see in the cartoons and the shopping malls. But, St.Nicholas was a real person. He is a saint. He was the Bishop of Myra and extreme generosity is what he\u2019s known for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At least the spirit of generosity has stayed but, you know, obviously the character has been changed. We\u2019ve celebrated this feast day, put the shoes out and the kids get a little treat but they learn about a saint so whenever I can incorporate saints into our Catholic family life I do that. So, I invite you to think about incorporating that tradition in your Advent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Purple decorations, another great tradition that don\u2019t have to be reserved for the Church. Fill your home with purple decorations. We have a little miniature Christmas tree that just purple the whole season and that\u2019s our Advent tree. But I know people who decorate their main Christmas tree with purple decorations all season until Christmas Eve and they change those out for Christmas decorations. Just purple candles, flowers and decorations in your home, again, is that visual reminder that we are in a special season called Advent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another beautiful and very simple tradition are the candles in the windows. And that tradition stemmed back centuries ago and it was symbolically saying to Mary and Joseph as they traveled that night to Bethlehem that yes, there\u2019s room in our inn. In our homes, our families, our hearts for the coming of the Lord. A beautiful very simple tradition of the candles in the window.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nativity scenes are very popular. People put them up early and maybe reserve the body of the baby out of the crib until Christmas Eve or Christmas morning. We have at our house a manger set outside and a couple inside. But we also have this tradition and it\u2019s called \u201cHay in the Manger\u201d. And I found a little wooden crib and I put it out on the kitchen counter and next to it a jar or bowl of hay. The tradition always was with our children any time any of us in the family did something good we would put a little hay in the manger. And we were trying to build up a bed for the little baby Jesus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As the kids got older we added a twist to it and we said that any time that you did something that wasn\u2019t so good you had to take a little hay out of the manger. But the idea was that as a family we were all working to be kind and gentle and loving and compassionate so that we would put together this warm, inviting bed for the baby Jesus to lay down in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, those are my tips. \u201cA-D-V-E-N-T\u201d for Adoration, Divine Word, Virgin Mary, Examination of Conscience, Neighborly Love and Traditions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, again, don\u2019t overwhelm yourself you know, getting too much at one time. But I hope that these tips will help make your season holy, to find just that sacred sense of peace, sense of rejuvenation and just being right with the Lord. And I will pray for your <a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/great-hope-gods-plan-advent-2017\/\">Advent season and I hope<\/a> you\u2019ll pray for mine as well. So, let\u2019s end with a prayer.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Closing Prayer<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><em>In the Name of the Father, and the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. And Lord we thank You again for the season of Advent. We thank You for the sacrament of Reconciliation, a way that we can really unburden ourselves and just put everything at the foot of Your cross and know that You will take those sins from us and make us new creations. We thank you for opportunities to be people of neighborly love to look out to those whom you\u2019ve entrusted us with in the greater community and we can be Your hearts and minds and direct us to whom You would like us to help this particular Advent season.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>And may we incorporate traditions in our home, in our family living, in our domestic churches to remind ourselves of this very special season that You have set aside for us that we may prepare ourselves for Your coming. For Your coming 2,000 years ago, for Your coming in the future and for Your coming in the day to day basis in our lives. We ask all of this in the name of Jesus. In the Name of the Father, and the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And again, have a blessed Advent season. Thanks for listening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">About Elizabeth Ficocelli<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:21% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"310\" height=\"382\" src=\"http:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Elizabeth-Ficocelli-Headshot-1.jpg\" alt=\"elizabeth-ficocelli-headshot\" class=\"wp-image-967 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Elizabeth-Ficocelli-Headshot-1.jpg 310w, https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Elizabeth-Ficocelli-Headshot-1-243x300.jpg 243w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 310px) 100vw, 310px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/speaker-elizabeth-ficocelli\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Elizabeth Ficocelli<\/a><\/strong> is a best-selling, award-winning author of fifteen books for adults and young people and a contributor to national Catholic magazines. She is a frequent guest on Catholic television and radio and the host of her own radio program, <a href=\"http:\/\/elizabethficocelli.com\/answering-the-call-am820\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u201cAnswering The Call\u201d<\/a> on St. Gabriel Catholic Radio AM 820. A sought-after speaker, Elizabeth presents at national Catholic conferences, catechetical events, parishes, schools, and retreats, sharing her love and enthusiasm for the Catholic faith with audiences of all ages. She and her husband of 31 years have four boys and reside in Columbus, Ohio. For more information, please visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.elizabethficocelli.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">www.elizabethficocelli.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\" src=\"http:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/six-ways-to-keep-your-advent-season-holy-part-ii-image.jpg\" alt=\"six-ways-to-keep-your-advent-season-holy-part-ii-image\" class=\"wp-image-950\" srcset=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/six-ways-to-keep-your-advent-season-holy-part-ii-image.jpg 800w, https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/six-ways-to-keep-your-advent-season-holy-part-ii-image-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/six-ways-to-keep-your-advent-season-holy-part-ii-image-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/six-ways-to-keep-your-advent-season-holy-part-ii-image-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"701\" height=\"316\" src=\"http:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/The-Pray-More-Retreat-image.jpg\" alt=\"the-pray-more-retreat-image\" class=\"wp-image-969\" srcset=\"https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/The-Pray-More-Retreat-image.jpg 701w, https:\/\/praymoreretreat.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/The-Pray-More-Retreat-image-300x135.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 701px) 100vw, 701px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Summary In this second part, Elizabeth discusses the three remaining tips to keep our Advent season holy. 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