How to Hear the Voice of God


How to Hear the Voice of God

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“Three Ways to Distinguish Between God’s Voice And Satan’s Voice” (Philip Kosloski)

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“Conversations with God” (Michelle Arnold, Catholic Answers)

tonyheadshotFather Anthony Co grew up in the western suburbs of Chicago. While completing his studies of philosophy and Eastern religions at the University of Illinois in Champaign-Urbana, Fr. Anthony received his calling to the priesthood. Immediately after graduating from U of I, Fr. Anthony entered Mt. St. Mary’s Seminary and for the next five years he prepared for Holy Orders for the Diocese of Peoria, IL. He was ordained to the priesthood at St. Mary of the Immaculate Conception in 2005 and offered his Mass of Thanksgiving on the Solemnity of Corpus Christi.

Father Anthony has served throughout the Diocese of Peoria, ministering to college students and various parishes.

He is now pastor of St. Patrick’s Catholic Church in Andalusia and a college chaplain.

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Hi, I’m Father Anthony. today we’re going to talk about how to hear the voice of

Jesus, as we know, is the good shepherd. The good shepherd has a voice so that his
little sheep, us, can follow after him and listen to him. So it’s important to realize
that God wants to speak to us. Jesus has something to say.

I thought in this little reflection, we could focus our attention on the ways that God
speaks to us and how we can better open our hearts to Him.

Before we do, before we go in this basic material, I thought I’d tell you a story of
one of my friends. She’s since moved on to another location, but she was a
parishioner at my parish and after the baptism of her baby, as I was coming into
the house for the party, she opens up the door and she goes, “Father Anthony,
before you go inside, I want to tell you a story about something that changed my

I said, “Really? what?”

She said, “When you had a homily about two moths ago, you had us in the middle
of the homily, kneel down and listen for the voice of God. And I wanted to tell you
that story. After mass, I was talking to my husband, and I said to my husband, “Did
you hear anything when we were kneeling down to pray and asked God the Father
how much he loves us?” and her husband said, “No I didn’t hear anything.” And
she said, “I tried really hard, and I didn’t hear anything either.”

Then she’s saying this as she’s getting into her car, then all of a sudden, God
wanted to speak to her. He allowed her in moment to experience His Grandeur –
the grandeur of His might, of his Sovereignty, of His love. And in relation to her
smallness – her significance, but her smallness, her imperfection, and her sin. She
began to weep uncontrollably.

Can you imagine this? She just told her husband that nothing happened, and now
she’s weeping in the car. And as this was happening, another thing happens. God
shifts her attention from his grandeur and his greatness and everything to His
closeness; he comes close to her and allows her to experience how much he loves

All the tears went away, she was filled with joy. She said, “Father Anthony, it’s
changed my life. I can see how this is the greatest thing that can ever happen to a
person – that God speaks to their sons and daughters.” She said, “it was so great
that I can see why people would sacrifice their lives — their lives — to follow God
and seek His will. I’m so thankful that God spoke his will in my life.”
Amazing! She just needed to hear the voice of God.

Now, how do we hear the voice of God? Well, I have my own categories…
Whether they’re the best categories ever, I don’t know, but I offer them to you.
When I think about the voice of God, I divide it up three categories: one is the
mind, two is the spirit, and three is the body.

Now, we are people with body and spirit, and it’s all missed together as one, but I
find it helpful to separate those things so I can focus on the ways that He is
speaking to me.

So, how does God speak to us in the mind? Often times, in my life, He speaks to
my mind through holy desires. He will put a holy desire into my mind and my
heart, that will start to burn. Maybe that holy desire is to serve in a very particular
way. Maybe that holy desire is to do a very specific thing that is one and done. But
the Lord comes in holy desires that have messages in them: I want you to do x, y
and z holy desires. Sometimes our Lord comes to us in our mind through
highlighted images, words, sentences, memories or ideas. Let me give you an
example of that…

Have You ever had the experience where you’re sitting at church, the priest is
preaching, and all of a sudden, it’s as if he is speaking specifically to your situation.
God is highlighting something in the preacher that is now in your mind and you
can’t get your mind off of it. Or you’re reading the Scriptures, and all of a sudden,
a line pops off the page and is fixated in your noggin – that is God highlighting

Sometimes God highlights memories. Let me give you an example… I was at a
grade school and I was doing the Mass and teaching the kids to hear the voice of
God and I asked them to ask God the Father to speak to them. And during the
homily, I asked the kids to raise their hands and tell me what God said. And this
one little boy said, “I had this image in my mind of a boat – a mighty boat – and it
was in this terrible storm, but no matter what the storm did, the boat wouldn’t
sink.” And I said to the little boy, “Well, I can’t tell you exactly what God was
saying for you, but it seems to me that you are in that boat, and you will never sink
no matter what.” This one little girl said,” I saw this biiiiiig heart,” and I said, You
know I don’t know exactly what God is saying to you, but maybe he’s saying that’s
his heart for you.

And then I was so proud of the teacher. She raised her hand and she said in front
of everyone — this was so awesome. she said,, “Father, I had the memory of when I
was a child, I would sit on my father’s lap in the rocking chair, and place my head
to his chest and listen to his heart. and i would just rock back and forth until I fell
asleep with my dad.” I said, “You know, I can’t tell you exactly what God was
saying to you, but it seems like that’s a beautiful image of you resting on His chest
and listening to His heart.”

God comes to us through holy memories, and I also group into the mind, open
visions which happens to some people, or even dreams. You know, you go to bed,
and God speaks to you through a dream. He can do it before, he can do it again.
The next thing I categorize into is the spirit. The spirit is the core of who we are. I
notice several things happen within my spirit when God communicates to me. He
causes joy. He causes peace. He causes renewal, and I also sense his presence. So
peace often comes with the knowledge that it’s going to be okay.

So this knowledge somehow God proves it to you that it is going to be okay, and it
causes a calmness a rest-ness of the heart. It causes our spirit to rest in Him.
Sometimes we experience Joy. Joy is delight of the spirit. We’re in His presence and
we experience joy. Sometimes it’s renewal. There’s heaviness to our live, and if he
pulls off the heaviness that sometimes is in our head, and he sometimes pulls of the
heaviness that’ sin our heart, and finally, we sense His presence.

Now, I often – and I’m so thankful for this – can sense the presence of God in a
room. It’s – I don’t know how to explain it completely, but my spirit is interacting
with His spirit, and I just know He’s here. I just know he’s in this room. He
interacts with our spirit.

The last thing I use as category is the body. God interacts with us and he
communicates to us in the mind, in the spirit, but also in the body.
Some people experience electricity in their hands and their body, some people
experience warmth, some people feel a great deal of rest and fall asleep in prayer,
some people experience goose bumps on their arm.s

The thing is that when God speaks to us in all these different ways, we have to trust
that i tis HIs voice to go forward to see when it’s his voice.

When we start to see beautiful fruits like beautiful things happening like listening to
the voice of God – when he puts something in our mind, does something in our
spirit, or does something in our body — then we begin to know that it is His voice,
and soon, it becomes a way of life for us.

But I think what happen sis that people get so afraid to make the first step. He
inspires something in your mind like, “Call your aunt ruth she might need a phone
call,” and your’e not quite sure if it is a random thought or if it is Him, but really
it’s Him communicating to you so you try it out, you call your aunt ruth, and she
says, “I”m so glad you galled me today, I was just having a rough day thinking
about your uncle who passed away, my husband, and I just needed a little bit of
cheering up, so thank you for calling.:

We just have to begin. We have to take that step to go forth as he speaks to our
mind, our spirit, and our body. I thought that i could end this little talk with
something that god is doing in my life particularly, and I’m still waiting for the
whole thing to unfold, so let me share with you a little bit of the backstory….
My father is Chinese-filipino. His father is from China, He emigrated to the
Philippines, started a very small convenience store which was probably the size of
most people’s closet, and then eventually it grew from there.

So my father eventually ended up in the US, and he studied to be a surgeon. Since
he was retired, and I think he retired at the age of 59, he’s been doing surgical
medical missions to the Philippines. So he’ll go once a year for a month, a month
and a half, and do some surgeries there for the poor. Beautiful thing! My dad is an
amazing man!

Well, one year, i decided it was time to honor my father — to show him,
demonstrate to him that I care about his life, and that I wanted to see into one of
the most important parts of his life, which was medicine. So I went with him on a
medical mission to the Philippines, and it was amazing!

I got to see my dad, who is a rock star, do all sorts of surgeries. you know, they have
different rules in the Philippines, so I just put on the same clothes as the surgeons,
and I got to stand right next to my dad as he did wonderful surgeries and helped so
many different people.

So here’s the story I want to tell you: while I was in the doctor’s lounge, I was just
relaxing, probably eating some snacks or drinking some juice, and one of the local
nurses was looking at something on her phone, and she was showing another nurse,
and they were talking about babies, and I got a glimpse – and this is sad, it looked
like a dead baby. So it perked my interest because I thought it was kind of odd. She
came over and showed me that she had a picture of all the babies who were

There were a whole bunch of them, and a lot of them were deformed. I said to
them “Why did this happen? This is so sad.” She said, “I believe that a lot of this is
occurring because of a lack of prenatal vitamins.” I said, “Women need vitamins
for a pregnancy?” “Yeah, she said, they don’t cost that much.” I asked how much it
cost. She said it cost between 5 to 7 US dollars.

I said, that’s nothing. So those babies on your camera could be alive to this day if
they had a little bit of vitamins. So that conversation stuck with me. It’s been
rattling in my brain for a number of years.

Another memory has come to my brain that God has highlighted for me.
And that was: my father came back two years ago, or a year ago, from a surgical
mission, and he was telling me about it, he said, “You know, son there was a very
sad situation. It brought years to my eyes.” I said, “Tell me about it.” He said, “I
found out after the fact that there was this woman giving birth to a baby, but she
didn’t have money, so they postponed her delivery 24-hours until her family could
scrounge up money to pay for her delivery.”

I was thinking about how much risk it put that baby and the mom and all that
unnecessary suffering for that poor mom. He said, “It put tears to my eyes when I
heard that.” And I was so moved by my father who was moved by this experience.

Okay, one more thing: my family is from a very poor region from the Philippines.
They were very fortunate. they started off with very little money when they were
young, but God has been good, and they’ve worked their way, many of them
immigrated to the US and many o them ended up in Manila, having really nice
jobs. There are a few who are left in the region, but was left behind was a little bit
of land. By the end of my grandpa’s life, there was some land. And it was divided
up between the siblings, and they weren’t quite sure what to do with it, so my aunt
decided to give that land away to some Benedictine sisters. And the Benedictine
sisters decided to build a hospital on that land for poor families.

Can you imagine how many lives it’s going to save? So last week, my father flew to
the Philippines for the grand opening, the blessing of it, and it is such a great joy to
my family that this is going to be a part of the family legacy : this hospital to help
the poor.

So I have all these things happening within my mind: I have the highlighted
memory of that nurse, the highlighted memory of my father moved by that
pregnant woman, and then I’m thinking about this hospital. I met the mother
Superior, and I felt this holy desire growing within my heart,and the message and
the holy desire was: you can solve a problem. You can save babies. You can help
mothers. How can I do that?

“Son, I want you to provide prenatal vitamins for this hospital,”: and I said, “I
think I can do that, Lord. But I’m a diocesan priest, with all sorts of different
commitments and I don’t have a lot of time to do other projects, and he said,
“Don’t worry, I’ll make it possible. I’ll bring you resources. I’ll bring you advisors. I
want you to make this thing happen.”

So now, I’m kind of in this in between stage, I’m so excited, and as the Lord is
speaking to me, I see these message sand memories – these holy desires, and I can
start to feel the spirit of God coming over my body and my heart, I start getting
goosebumps on my arms, and I’m burning in my heart. This is the voice of God in
my life.

So Im just going to ask you – there are a lot of people listening to this talk, to please
keep this possible mission in your prayers. Babies need help, moms need help,
especially in these poor countries. And we can be part of the solution.
This is the voice of God. I realize there are messages that I have to reflect on and
pray on in my spirit, in my mind, in my body.

I realize that I can often times be deceived; I can be wrong about what I hear. But
the only way to find out is to go forward, and when you go forward through the
prompting of the Lord as he speaks to you, and you begin to see beautiful things
happening, you know it is the voice of God.